These are reasons why women do cheat their husband, Watch out what happen to this lady after being caught with her boyfriend.
Those are the guys who never cheat, even if they wish they could. I wish they would shut up about it. Save your stories about how you made sweet love to your wife before you left for the flight to Europe. Don't be a house-proud dipshit. Don't moralize. My happiness and my misery are my own—don't gift wrap some part of yours to compensate. Yes, I know, there are plenty of men who pass that test of fidelity. For them there is no other way.
Understand that an affair—an act that throws the ordinary into a direct balance with the extraordinary—is a kind of test, too. For me, it tests limits and my tolerance for risk. It does not simply feel good. It creates strata of secrecy that demand my constant upkeep. It requires attention to two sets of details—one for home and one for the hotel room—while managing huge swaths of attendant risk involving communication and implication. My stories must mesh. My memories must be private.
This juices some guys, the kind who want to constantly feel panic perched on the rim of their gut. These are the competitors, the bungee jumpers. They love everything that comes with an affair. For them cheating is a reflection of their success in the endeavor of living. Look at what it takes. The cheater has enough money, enough time, enough discipline, enough of the dark arts of secrecy tucked tight in his chest to pull off a complex deception of the person with whom he is most intimate. For them it is less the woman than the fact of the cheating. For this guy, an affair is a kind of accomplishment. This is not me.
I love women. I love everything about a new woman: her smell, her armpits, her wrists. I have fucked large, ugly women and small, fragile ones. I've had an ongoing relationship with a friend from college in a southern state for 16 years.
She tells me not to cheat on her. But I do, and I do not let her in on it. I've fucked lesbians in Paris, hotel clerks on cots, and soldiers in uniform. All while I was married. I wish the list were longer. Sometimes it is banal, other times epic.
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